They say the eyes are the windows of the soul…

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Hiya!! I wanted to pop in this evening to show of some of the amaze items from e.marie which I am happy to say is one of my brand new sponsors! She has some of the most amazing eyes on the grid! I really am addicted to the au naturels. Her nails and jewelry are super high quality and this girl has an awesome sense of style. If you haven’t checked out her stuffs before doooo ettt! You will loveeee I am sure!

Thank you for stopping by and as always keep being amazing! ♥

Spotlight Items:

Eyes:
e.marie // EYES au naturel – Pack 4 @ Mainstore

Rings:
e.marie // Gemstone Stacking Rings – Sterling @ Kustom9
Nails:
e.marie // OVAL Boho Magic @ Kustom9

Bracelet
e.marie // Journey Bracelet Set – Bracelet 2 – Sterling @ N°21

 

Other Credits:
Hair:
[RA] – Chloe Hair

Skin:
Pink Fuel Liya <Biscuit> – Liya (Also using Eyeshadow and Brows from this set of Catwa appliers)

Head:

CATWA HEAD Catya

Lashes:
Bold & Beauty :: Classic Collection Lash and Eyes! (Giselle V.2 #3 on the hud) – Powder Pack February ’17

Eyeshadow:
From the League – Ella skin applier pack

Lips:
Studio Exposure – TOUCH CREAM LIPS VERS.09 MAKEUP

Top:
.:villena:. – Laced Up Turtleneck Top – Black @ Kustom9

Hands:

Slink AvEnhance Hands Female – Casual

Pose
Izzie’s – Head & Hands 2

No shame in my game… Can you say the same?

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Good morning! I hope everyone is having a nice lazy sunday. I got tons going on right now and I swear there is not enough hours in the day.  For now I am in the mood to relax and take some pictures. I am so in love with the new Cynful Coax set that you will prolly see it again and again. I really hope the Cynful goddesses make more sexy lingerie! I paired the set up with the new Laced Up High Boots from !NFINITY for Buy Now SL. These thigh high sexy stunners are a perfect match to the lingerie. Def check them out!

While I was working on this post I was thinking about something that has been a hot topic lately. Body image and shaming. I think people forget SL is a place for us to come to step away from our real and enjoy a bit of fantasy and fun. We can be anything we want to be and look how we like. In SL we should be able to not be bothered with the same judging eyes that follow us in rl. So what I do not understand is why do those judging eyes come into SL. Can we not leave that mess at login and allow ourselves to do as we please and give others that same respect? At the end of the day we are all the same… Pixels… Pixels that do not matter. What does matter is the connections we make with others and the quality of those connections. Ofc some will be not good but being a decent human being helps to have some really great ones. Some of my best real life friends are pixels and they are the only pixels that matter to me. By saying this I mean that I find their pixels as beautiful as the human being behind them. All other pixels do not make a difference to me. I like to get to know the people behind them. I will never go out of my way to shame someone simply on the appearance of their pixels because I know that regardless of how someone’s avi is set up the person behind it can be someone amazing and judging them on their avi I run the risk of missing out on making an amazing friend.

What hurts my heart even more is when I see people being shamed for how they look in rl. I feel it takes a good bit of courage to expose your rl self. I don’t feel people need to be shamed for how they look. There is so much fat shaming it is ridiculous and anyone thin has to be anorexic right? No! If you feel the need to be horrible to someone for how they look you obviously have some issues of your own. I think that before anyone says something mean about how anyone else looks they need to take a long look in the mirror and just think for a few minutes of how they might feel if someone did that to them. Lots say they would not care…. I call bs on that. Words hurt. People judging you for no legit reason hurts. I am a strong woman and can take a lot but that doesn’t mean if someone did that to me it wouldn’t hurt. I, myself have had some thoughts on how others look but before I would ever make a nasty remark I do stop myself and think about what I have thought to say and my reasons why. That legit takes about a min to evaluate why you think you need to say something like that. Like I said, SL is a place that the judging should be checked at login. I feel this way about the SL side of social media. Show some respect to those brave enough to put themselves out there and show some respect for yourself. At the end of the day there will come a time when none of this will matter. You will look back on your life and wonder if you really were a good person. So try to remember to treat people in a way you would want yourself/friends/family to be treated.

Thanks so much for stopping by! Keep being amazing! ♥

Spotlight Items:

Outfit:
[Cynful] Coax Lingerie @ Whore Couture

Boots:
!NFINITY Laced Up High Boots @ Buy Now SL – March round

How to shop Buy Now:
Marketplace keyword: BN17-March
( https://marketplace.secondlife.com/ )
Shop from our blog: www.buynowsl.com
Shop from our list! Join the Buy Now Group today!
secondlife:///app/group/aadd83e7-c2a4-5ed8-f3ed-2c617fe8c66f/about (copy and paste in local)

Eyes:
e.marie // EYES au naturel – Pack 3

 

Other Credits:
Hair:
[RA] – Tasha Hair

Skin:
Pink Fuel Liya <Biscuit> – Liya (Also using Eyeshadow and Brows from this set of Catwa appliers)

Head:

CATWA HEAD Catya

Lashes:
Bold & Beauty :: Classic Collection Lash and Eyes! (Giselle V.2 #3 on the hud) – Powder Pack February ’17

Eyeshadow:
From the League – Ella skin applier pack

Lips:
Studio Exposure – GLAMOUR REFLECT LIPSTICK DARK TONES – Red

Hands:
Vista – Bento Pro Hands

Nails:
[Encore] Nail Appliers – Shades of Red

Rings:
–SECRETS– Bianca Rings – Silver

Body:
Belleza – Freya

Beauty shines from within…

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Good morning! Thought I would come through and show off some more stunning Cynful stuffs. Their new Coax Lingerie and belly chain are super sexy as you can see and will be available at this round of Whore Couture. I have seen tons of lingerie in SL and yall know these types of post I never really do to much lol all in my undies but this set is classy af. Loving the satin and lace, these ladies really killed it! Also Inhale is still at it with those updates! So be sure to go check them out and nab all of your favorites.

I want to speak on something really quick if I may. Recently, I have seen a post or two about bloggers who use items they bought in their blogs and how we all should stop doing that and only blog what we are sponsored as a way for bloggers to fight back the unfairness of not being chosen to blog for brands they applied to. I find that to be a terrible way to think in my honest opinion. For myself I love taking pictures so with sponsors or with none I still would take them and show them off. So to me blogging is a creative outlet and the fact that I am able to share the things I love with all of you makes me happy. I think that bloggers who feel they should only blog sponsored items as a way to fight back are simply in it to see what they are able to obtain for free. This all came about due to some bitterness over not being chosen to blog by a designer.

There seems to be so much animosity built up on this topic. Bloggers failing to realize there are so many factors that are present when designers choose their bloggers. Getting so upset when they are not chosen by large brands tho not recognizing the fact that those larger brands receive so many apps that choosing all that applied literally would put them out of business. I do not know when this sense of entitlement came around but I do wish people would understand that everything is chance. We put our names in and if we suit that person’s style etc then we get chosen. If we do not get chosen it doesn’t mean we aren’t good bloggers nor does it mean that designer doesn’t like us. At the end of the day they can only chose so many. Most do rounds of blogging these days for that very reason to give everyone a fair shake. I do hope that more bloggers realize that and calm down.

There is a lot being said too about designers wanting x number of views and x number of favorites. Now, ofc it can be super discouraging to not meet those standards of the brands we love however, I can understand them setting them. The point of having bloggers is to have their products seen. Not just to have someone take pretty pictures of them and no one seeing them. We have no control as to how many favs or likes we get but we do have some control over the visibility of our blogs. Especially with all of the social media platforms we have at our disposal. After the considerable time put into finishing a post it only takes a few minutes to pop it on flickr and show it off in loads of groups. The same with facebook.  Now many feel blogging shouldn’t feel like work and they do it for fun. That is fine tho in response to that I have to say that anything we want in life requires some level of work. When you pick up a sponsor you now have a job to do. Do your best posting showing of their items the best way you’re able and to make sure your post is seen. Do you think that the larger scale bloggers that have obtained a solid level of SL fame didn’t work for it? They have and hard to get to where they are now.

So I am hoping that this helps some of you see that not being chosen is nothing personal, it is all up to chance. Also, that blogging things that you love that you purchased is a great way to show those brands that you love that, with them sponsoring you or without you still love them and support them. My theory is if I cannot show my support to the designers I love why should they have any desire to sponsor me?

Thanks for listening to my early morning ramblings ♥ xoxo

If yall have opinions on this please feel free to comment! Please be respectful ♥

Spotlight Items:
Outfit:
[Cynful] Coax Lingerie @ Whore Couture (Opens March 1st)
[Cynful] Coax Belly Chain @ Whore Couture

Tattoo:
.Inhale. Let it Sleep Sleeves & .Inhale. Creeper – Leg Tattoo

Other Credits:
Hair:
[RA] Winx Hair

Skin & Lips:
Pink Fuel Liya <Biscuit> – Liya (Also using Eyeshadow and Brows from this set of Catwa appliers)

Eyeshadow:
From the League – Ella skin applier pack

Head:
CATWA HEAD Catya

Eyes:
e.marie // EYES au naturel – Pack 3

Lashes:
Bold & Beauty :: Classic Collection Lash and Eyes! (Giselle V.2 #3 on the hud) – Powder Pack February ’17

Hands:
Vista – Bento Pro Hands

Nails:
e.marie // HUD Vista ProHand Boho Magic @ Kustom 9

Rings:
–SECRETS– Bianca Rings – Silver

Body:
Belleza – Freya

Poses:
FOXCITY. Candy -3
FOXCITY. Beauty-3

Side by side or miles apart, we are sisters connected by heart.

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Just popping in with a quick pretty of my sissy and I. ♥

Hair:

Phoenix – Britney @ Hairology (Me – Blonde)

Runaway – Nymph @ Hairology (Sissy – Brunette – She added the bangs that came with the Truth Group Gift “Sugar” Cute right!?)

Eyes:

Euphoric – Poison Ivy mesh eyes (both of us)

Skin/Face:

Skin:

League – Ella – Medium Tone (Me)

League – Sunskin Tone (Sissy)

Lipstick:

[theSkinnery] – Passion Lip Kip (Catwa Applier) (Me)

Birth Acura 3rd Gen Lipstick – (Sissy)

Clothing:

Me:

Addams –  Irina Suit Jacket

Addams – Leda Hoodie Sleeveless

Addams – Adele Short Sleeves

Necklace –

[Cynful] – Persuade Necklace

Sissy:

Addams  – Trina neck jumpsuit @ C88

Let us love winter for it is the spring of genius…

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Good afternoon y’all! Mhmm, I am back and with something pretty amazing to show you. Hextraordinary has brought us a simply stunning elven throne to We ❤ Role Play! It is super high quality with some amazing detail and comes with a HUD offering season changes. This is really just perfect for your garden or rp or photo sim. I totally recommend you go have a look. ♥

Spotlight Items:

*HEXtraordinary* Elven Throne @  We Roleplay 

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Other Credits:

Hair:

TRUTH HAIR – Sugar

Wrap:

GizzA – Crystal Faux Fur Stole [Cream]

Dress:

*Just BECAUSE*  – Kimbra Gown – White – Freya

Eyes:

CATWA Mesh Eyes
&
Euphoric –  Kenya 2 Eyes – Catwa Eyes Applier

Skin:

League – Ella – Medium Tone

Lipstick:

[theSkinnery] – Passion Lip Kip (Catwa Applier)

Snow and stuff:

Y.B Skybox mesh – Dademya

Y.B Winter fir

Mad Kitty = Bad Kitty…

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Hiya everyone! I know it has been a while since the last time I dropped in. Busy, busy as usual! I got some time to do some decorating for the holidays and wanted to come through and introduce yall to my mad lil kitty. Lol isn’t he sooo cute! He and many others have been brought to us by Hextraordinary and are available right now! “Nope Cats” are available at The Arcade so be sure to put them on your shopping list or your list to Santa! These make perfect gifts for all your kitty loving friends!

 

Spotlight Items:

*HEXtraordinary* : Nope Cat – Cuddle Santa Hat – RARE @ The Arcade

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Other Credits:

Hair:

TRUTH HAIR – Azalea

Eyes:

CATWA Mesh Eyes
&
Euphoric –  Kenya 2 Eyes – Catwa Eyes Applier

Skin:

League – Ella – Medium Tone

Lipstick:

[theSkinnery] – Passion Lip Kip (Catwa Applier)