So chill…

Good morning all you beautiful people! Coming through today to show yall some brand new Cynful stuffs. Our lovely ladies have some dope stuff at C88 right now. The Bombshell Top and pants are some body hugging loungewear that is life! So while you’re at C88 check em out and be sure to try them demos!

Thanks for visiting! ♥♥♥

Spotlight Items:
[Cynful] Bombshell Top & Pants (Available Separately) @ C88

Other Credits:
Hair:
Truth – March VIP Gift – Zoya,

Head:
Catwa – Catya

Eyes:
MANIK QUEEN – Mystica Eyes – Onyx – Catwa eye applier

Ears:
[MANDALA] -UNISEX[MANDALA]STEKING_EARS_Season 5

Skin:
amara beauty – Dolce -Catwa – Peach w/ Dolce Lipsticks and Kelly Eyeshadow (Lips instore, Shadow from Powder Pack February ’17)

Hands:
Slink – New Dynamic Bento Hands

Shoes:
[VALE KOER] – TIPPYTOE CHUCKS

No shame in my game… Can you say the same?

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Good morning! I hope everyone is having a nice lazy sunday. I got tons going on right now and I swear there is not enough hours in the day.  For now I am in the mood to relax and take some pictures. I am so in love with the new Cynful Coax set that you will prolly see it again and again. I really hope the Cynful goddesses make more sexy lingerie! I paired the set up with the new Laced Up High Boots from !NFINITY for Buy Now SL. These thigh high sexy stunners are a perfect match to the lingerie. Def check them out!

While I was working on this post I was thinking about something that has been a hot topic lately. Body image and shaming. I think people forget SL is a place for us to come to step away from our real and enjoy a bit of fantasy and fun. We can be anything we want to be and look how we like. In SL we should be able to not be bothered with the same judging eyes that follow us in rl. So what I do not understand is why do those judging eyes come into SL. Can we not leave that mess at login and allow ourselves to do as we please and give others that same respect? At the end of the day we are all the same… Pixels… Pixels that do not matter. What does matter is the connections we make with others and the quality of those connections. Ofc some will be not good but being a decent human being helps to have some really great ones. Some of my best real life friends are pixels and they are the only pixels that matter to me. By saying this I mean that I find their pixels as beautiful as the human being behind them. All other pixels do not make a difference to me. I like to get to know the people behind them. I will never go out of my way to shame someone simply on the appearance of their pixels because I know that regardless of how someone’s avi is set up the person behind it can be someone amazing and judging them on their avi I run the risk of missing out on making an amazing friend.

What hurts my heart even more is when I see people being shamed for how they look in rl. I feel it takes a good bit of courage to expose your rl self. I don’t feel people need to be shamed for how they look. There is so much fat shaming it is ridiculous and anyone thin has to be anorexic right? No! If you feel the need to be horrible to someone for how they look you obviously have some issues of your own. I think that before anyone says something mean about how anyone else looks they need to take a long look in the mirror and just think for a few minutes of how they might feel if someone did that to them. Lots say they would not care…. I call bs on that. Words hurt. People judging you for no legit reason hurts. I am a strong woman and can take a lot but that doesn’t mean if someone did that to me it wouldn’t hurt. I, myself have had some thoughts on how others look but before I would ever make a nasty remark I do stop myself and think about what I have thought to say and my reasons why. That legit takes about a min to evaluate why you think you need to say something like that. Like I said, SL is a place that the judging should be checked at login. I feel this way about the SL side of social media. Show some respect to those brave enough to put themselves out there and show some respect for yourself. At the end of the day there will come a time when none of this will matter. You will look back on your life and wonder if you really were a good person. So try to remember to treat people in a way you would want yourself/friends/family to be treated.

Thanks so much for stopping by! Keep being amazing! ♥

Spotlight Items:

Outfit:
[Cynful] Coax Lingerie @ Whore Couture

Boots:
!NFINITY Laced Up High Boots @ Buy Now SL – March round

How to shop Buy Now:
Marketplace keyword: BN17-March
( https://marketplace.secondlife.com/ )
Shop from our blog: www.buynowsl.com
Shop from our list! Join the Buy Now Group today!
secondlife:///app/group/aadd83e7-c2a4-5ed8-f3ed-2c617fe8c66f/about (copy and paste in local)

Eyes:
e.marie // EYES au naturel – Pack 3

 

Other Credits:
Hair:
[RA] – Tasha Hair

Skin:
Pink Fuel Liya <Biscuit> – Liya (Also using Eyeshadow and Brows from this set of Catwa appliers)

Head:

CATWA HEAD Catya

Lashes:
Bold & Beauty :: Classic Collection Lash and Eyes! (Giselle V.2 #3 on the hud) – Powder Pack February ’17

Eyeshadow:
From the League – Ella skin applier pack

Lips:
Studio Exposure – GLAMOUR REFLECT LIPSTICK DARK TONES – Red

Hands:
Vista – Bento Pro Hands

Nails:
[Encore] Nail Appliers – Shades of Red

Rings:
–SECRETS– Bianca Rings – Silver

Body:
Belleza – Freya

Beauty shines from within…

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Good morning! Thought I would come through and show off some more stunning Cynful stuffs. Their new Coax Lingerie and belly chain are super sexy as you can see and will be available at this round of Whore Couture. I have seen tons of lingerie in SL and yall know these types of post I never really do to much lol all in my undies but this set is classy af. Loving the satin and lace, these ladies really killed it! Also Inhale is still at it with those updates! So be sure to go check them out and nab all of your favorites.

I want to speak on something really quick if I may. Recently, I have seen a post or two about bloggers who use items they bought in their blogs and how we all should stop doing that and only blog what we are sponsored as a way for bloggers to fight back the unfairness of not being chosen to blog for brands they applied to. I find that to be a terrible way to think in my honest opinion. For myself I love taking pictures so with sponsors or with none I still would take them and show them off. So to me blogging is a creative outlet and the fact that I am able to share the things I love with all of you makes me happy. I think that bloggers who feel they should only blog sponsored items as a way to fight back are simply in it to see what they are able to obtain for free. This all came about due to some bitterness over not being chosen to blog by a designer.

There seems to be so much animosity built up on this topic. Bloggers failing to realize there are so many factors that are present when designers choose their bloggers. Getting so upset when they are not chosen by large brands tho not recognizing the fact that those larger brands receive so many apps that choosing all that applied literally would put them out of business. I do not know when this sense of entitlement came around but I do wish people would understand that everything is chance. We put our names in and if we suit that person’s style etc then we get chosen. If we do not get chosen it doesn’t mean we aren’t good bloggers nor does it mean that designer doesn’t like us. At the end of the day they can only chose so many. Most do rounds of blogging these days for that very reason to give everyone a fair shake. I do hope that more bloggers realize that and calm down.

There is a lot being said too about designers wanting x number of views and x number of favorites. Now, ofc it can be super discouraging to not meet those standards of the brands we love however, I can understand them setting them. The point of having bloggers is to have their products seen. Not just to have someone take pretty pictures of them and no one seeing them. We have no control as to how many favs or likes we get but we do have some control over the visibility of our blogs. Especially with all of the social media platforms we have at our disposal. After the considerable time put into finishing a post it only takes a few minutes to pop it on flickr and show it off in loads of groups. The same with facebook.  Now many feel blogging shouldn’t feel like work and they do it for fun. That is fine tho in response to that I have to say that anything we want in life requires some level of work. When you pick up a sponsor you now have a job to do. Do your best posting showing of their items the best way you’re able and to make sure your post is seen. Do you think that the larger scale bloggers that have obtained a solid level of SL fame didn’t work for it? They have and hard to get to where they are now.

So I am hoping that this helps some of you see that not being chosen is nothing personal, it is all up to chance. Also, that blogging things that you love that you purchased is a great way to show those brands that you love that, with them sponsoring you or without you still love them and support them. My theory is if I cannot show my support to the designers I love why should they have any desire to sponsor me?

Thanks for listening to my early morning ramblings ♥ xoxo

If yall have opinions on this please feel free to comment! Please be respectful ♥

Spotlight Items:
Outfit:
[Cynful] Coax Lingerie @ Whore Couture (Opens March 1st)
[Cynful] Coax Belly Chain @ Whore Couture

Tattoo:
.Inhale. Let it Sleep Sleeves & .Inhale. Creeper – Leg Tattoo

Other Credits:
Hair:
[RA] Winx Hair

Skin & Lips:
Pink Fuel Liya <Biscuit> – Liya (Also using Eyeshadow and Brows from this set of Catwa appliers)

Eyeshadow:
From the League – Ella skin applier pack

Head:
CATWA HEAD Catya

Eyes:
e.marie // EYES au naturel – Pack 3

Lashes:
Bold & Beauty :: Classic Collection Lash and Eyes! (Giselle V.2 #3 on the hud) – Powder Pack February ’17

Hands:
Vista – Bento Pro Hands

Nails:
e.marie // HUD Vista ProHand Boho Magic @ Kustom 9

Rings:
–SECRETS– Bianca Rings – Silver

Body:
Belleza – Freya

Poses:
FOXCITY. Candy -3
FOXCITY. Beauty-3

Veni Vidi Amavi…

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Helllloo ya’ll! Sooo yes I will be doing my posts a good bit more frequently *sighs*. Break is over. Lol. Admittedly, I have missed having the time/energy to post more often. Today I just wanted to come through and show off this fabulous new set from Cynful. When I put this outfit on I had to pick my jaw up off the floor, it is just stunning. The set is a collaboration with Phoenix hair which I have been full on loving Phoenix and this hair I just have no word to tell you how much I love it. Both the outfit and hair are available at C88 right now! As always try those demos, tho I am sure you will loveeee these mmhmm!

Thanks for stopping by! ♥

Spotlight Items:
Cynful @ C88
[Cynful] Regality Corset Set
[Cynful] Regality Necklace

Other Credits:
Hair:
:::Phoenix::: Tiana Hair V.1 @ C88

Head:
CATWA – Catya

Hands:
Vista – Bento Pro Hands

Skin:
Pink Fuel – Sabine

Eyes:
e.marie // EYES au naturel – Pack 1

Eyeshadow:
From the DeeTaleZ *Appliers* CATWA Head “Face Amaya” Mixed Type applier.

Lips:
Studio Exposure – GLAMOUR REFLECT LIPSTICK DARK TONES – Red

Nails:
[FORMAL NAILS] STILETTO NAILS FOR VISTA HAND

Rings:
SECRETS– Bianca Rings – Silver @ Crossroads

Pose:
FOXCITY. Candy Set – Candy 1&2

Side by side or miles apart, we are sisters connected by heart.

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Just popping in with a quick pretty of my sissy and I. ♥

Hair:

Phoenix – Britney @ Hairology (Me – Blonde)

Runaway – Nymph @ Hairology (Sissy – Brunette – She added the bangs that came with the Truth Group Gift “Sugar” Cute right!?)

Eyes:

Euphoric – Poison Ivy mesh eyes (both of us)

Skin/Face:

Skin:

League – Ella – Medium Tone (Me)

League – Sunskin Tone (Sissy)

Lipstick:

[theSkinnery] – Passion Lip Kip (Catwa Applier) (Me)

Birth Acura 3rd Gen Lipstick – (Sissy)

Clothing:

Me:

Addams –  Irina Suit Jacket

Addams – Leda Hoodie Sleeveless

Addams – Adele Short Sleeves

Necklace –

[Cynful] – Persuade Necklace

Sissy:

Addams  – Trina neck jumpsuit @ C88

She’s a wicked little kitty…

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Hello everyone! Yep still alive here. lol. Needing another lil break from my break. With all this great new stuff out now I def had to do some shopping. I included some of the shop ads for a few of the items to give you a closer look at the details. I wanna talk about something right now tho that is not so much shopping related. I am not sure what is going on with people today but it seems there is a lot of tearing each other down. I know we are in the season of the wicked but does this mean we must be wicked to one another? It makes my heart sad to see so much of this going on again. I am not entirely sure how to make this a non issue and get people to stop being so nasty and negative but I do know what we can do. Ignore it. If you should see someone being horrible to someone else or if they are being nasty to you. Ignore it. Say something positive and carry on as if those being nasty are not even there. One of the best defenses you will ever have is the ability of not giving negative people power to run your feelings. There is always that one person that might try to bring you down but just remember for every one person who does that there are 20 people to lift you up. Anyways just some food for thought. I hope everyone has a great day and a fantastic weekend! Now get out there and shop! ♥

Spotlight Items:

Mask:

*HEXtraordinary* Black Cat Mask @ Salem

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Dress and Choker:

[Cynful] Love Spell Dress @ Salem

[Cynful] Love Spell Choker @ Salem

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Tattoo:

.Inhale. Creeper -Tattoo @ Shiny Shabby

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Other Credits:

Hair: 

[LeLutka]-BOUFFANT

Eyes: 

CATWA Realistic Mesh Eyes (Texture is my own coming soon to MANIK QUEEN)

Eyeshadow:  

Euphoric – Sisi Eyeshadow

Lipstick:

Euphoric – Confident Shiny Makeup & Mesh Eyes Set

Deco:

MadPea – The Witching Hour – Wall Sconce @ Salem

MadPea – The Witching Hour – Goat Skull @ Salem

MadPea – The Witching Hour – Potion Cabinet@ Salem

MadPea – The Witching Hour – Eye of a Virgin@ Salem

 

tarte. half moon table (classic) (I tinted it a bit darker to match)

Scene shot in the back room of the Scarlet Creative  Daylily Cottage

Pucker up Buttercup…

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Sometimes I get into my head so much in rl it is super nice to get a distraction. One of my favorite distractions is some shopping fun with my sissy. So today I have some sexy newness to show you. Our Cynful goddesses have their brand new Pucker gacha at Epiphany right now! As you can see it is freaking amaze! I dropped the gacha key below so you could have a peek at all the pretties. I slipped into Empire’s Kustom 9 lovelies to rock with this outfit. They are super sexy and fit so goooood! I gotta thank both Cynful and Empire for bringing us them Freya (and all the others too) fits! Y’all def need to go check these pretties out. So muchhhh ❤ ❤ <3!!!

 

Spotlight Items:

Outfit:

[Cynful] Pucker Set @ Epiphany 

  • Pucker Top
  • Pucker Pant
  • Pucker Lipstick Belt
  • Pucker Lipstick Armband
  • Pucker Necklace (Unrigged)
  • Pucker Bracelet (Unrigged)

sizes for Belleza V3, Maitreya , Both Slinks

Cynful Pucker Gacha Key

Shoes:

EMPIRE – Kaffir @ Kustom 9

Comes with 15 colors and fits include Belleza V3, Both Slinks, Maitreya, & TMP

Other Credits:

Hair:

little bones. Pose – The Dark @ Hair Fair

Makeup and nails: @ The Dressing Room

Deesses Boutique: Creamy nails

Deesses Boutique: CATWA – Jussy lipstick set (5 Colors)

Deesses Boutique: CATWA – VIP Shadow set (5 Colors)

Eyes:

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