No shame in my game… Can you say the same?

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Good morning! I hope everyone is having a nice lazy sunday. I got tons going on right now and I swear there is not enough hours in the day.  For now I am in the mood to relax and take some pictures. I am so in love with the new Cynful Coax set that you will prolly see it again and again. I really hope the Cynful goddesses make more sexy lingerie! I paired the set up with the new Laced Up High Boots from !NFINITY for Buy Now SL. These thigh high sexy stunners are a perfect match to the lingerie. Def check them out!

While I was working on this post I was thinking about something that has been a hot topic lately. Body image and shaming. I think people forget SL is a place for us to come to step away from our real and enjoy a bit of fantasy and fun. We can be anything we want to be and look how we like. In SL we should be able to not be bothered with the same judging eyes that follow us in rl. So what I do not understand is why do those judging eyes come into SL. Can we not leave that mess at login and allow ourselves to do as we please and give others that same respect? At the end of the day we are all the same… Pixels… Pixels that do not matter. What does matter is the connections we make with others and the quality of those connections. Ofc some will be not good but being a decent human being helps to have some really great ones. Some of my best real life friends are pixels and they are the only pixels that matter to me. By saying this I mean that I find their pixels as beautiful as the human being behind them. All other pixels do not make a difference to me. I like to get to know the people behind them. I will never go out of my way to shame someone simply on the appearance of their pixels because I know that regardless of how someone’s avi is set up the person behind it can be someone amazing and judging them on their avi I run the risk of missing out on making an amazing friend.

What hurts my heart even more is when I see people being shamed for how they look in rl. I feel it takes a good bit of courage to expose your rl self. I don’t feel people need to be shamed for how they look. There is so much fat shaming it is ridiculous and anyone thin has to be anorexic right? No! If you feel the need to be horrible to someone for how they look you obviously have some issues of your own. I think that before anyone says something mean about how anyone else looks they need to take a long look in the mirror and just think for a few minutes of how they might feel if someone did that to them. Lots say they would not care…. I call bs on that. Words hurt. People judging you for no legit reason hurts. I am a strong woman and can take a lot but that doesn’t mean if someone did that to me it wouldn’t hurt. I, myself have had some thoughts on how others look but before I would ever make a nasty remark I do stop myself and think about what I have thought to say and my reasons why. That legit takes about a min to evaluate why you think you need to say something like that. Like I said, SL is a place that the judging should be checked at login. I feel this way about the SL side of social media. Show some respect to those brave enough to put themselves out there and show some respect for yourself. At the end of the day there will come a time when none of this will matter. You will look back on your life and wonder if you really were a good person. So try to remember to treat people in a way you would want yourself/friends/family to be treated.

Thanks so much for stopping by! Keep being amazing! ♥

Spotlight Items:

Outfit:
[Cynful] Coax Lingerie @ Whore Couture

Boots:
!NFINITY Laced Up High Boots @ Buy Now SL – March round

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Eyes:
e.marie // EYES au naturel – Pack 3

 

Other Credits:
Hair:
[RA] – Tasha Hair

Skin:
Pink Fuel Liya <Biscuit> – Liya (Also using Eyeshadow and Brows from this set of Catwa appliers)

Head:

CATWA HEAD Catya

Lashes:
Bold & Beauty :: Classic Collection Lash and Eyes! (Giselle V.2 #3 on the hud) – Powder Pack February ’17

Eyeshadow:
From the League – Ella skin applier pack

Lips:
Studio Exposure – GLAMOUR REFLECT LIPSTICK DARK TONES – Red

Hands:
Vista – Bento Pro Hands

Nails:
[Encore] Nail Appliers – Shades of Red

Rings:
–SECRETS– Bianca Rings – Silver

Body:
Belleza – Freya